It’s been through my own healing journey with my biological father that I’ve come to truly overstand the value of a Dad.
Anyone can be a father—clearly, I had one, because I’m here. For that, I give thanks. But I’m especially thankful for my Dad—the man who raised me, even if I haven’t always given him the credit he deserves. He’s not perfect. But he’s been there. Consistently. As a provider, an ear, a steady presence, a quiet confidant. I’ve spent so much of my life searching for you, Dad—not realizing you were right there all along. I see you now. I appreciate you. Thank you.
And thank you to all the Dads who show up for their girls. Who teach them their worth. Who remind them, in word and action, no to EVER settle for less than love, respect, and truth. That kind of presence is priceless—and sadly, not every girl receives it… even when there’s a father in the house. Father’s Day has always been emotional for me. For years, I gave it over to honoring someone who was only around when it benefited him—when I could’ve been pouring that energy into the one who actually raised me.
I get it now.
This year, I reflect on my worth—and how no one gets to define it for me. I reflect on my love for myself. I reflect on the work it takes to ensure our girls grow up knowing their worth, without needing permission to believe it.
This year, I reflect on the power of Dads—and the impact their presence has. I reflect on the girls who have no Dad, no Father—none present in body, mind, spirit, or soul… even if he’s technically right there in the room. And I reflect on the strength it takes to still create safe spaces, to say no, and to set high standards—especially when no one ever taught you how.
This year, I made this day about me. However, that’s what this day does—it brings me back to center.
Truth is… I’ve been jealous at times. Jealous of the girls with the good Dads, the soft love, the picket fence.
But now?
I’m proud of them.
Proud of their Dads.
And proud to see myself reflected in them, too. Here’s to the Dads. God bless you all.
Especially mine. 🤍
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